Often times the grass just looks greener but our vision is obscured by current situations and recent memories. Green grass is beautiful so it is easy to go towards it blindly whether it is a new job opportunity or a relationship. Instead of making an emotional or rash decision make a strategic decision by applying these steps to really determine if the grass is greener:
- Do Your Homework: The better decision you will make the more information you know. So do your homework and get information. If looking at another job gets you inside information then use your network to find someone that has either worked in the same or similar position and has worked for this manager. If the job is with a different company then make sure to get perspective on company culture and whether it fits with what motivates you.
- Do Not Act in Haste: Often times decisions are made in reaction to emotions so take a step back when making these important decisions and slow things down. The more you can slow things down within reason the better your decisions will be. Any job where you must decide quickly is probably not the right job. Remember there are a lot of opportunities out there and waiting for the right one is difficult but being patient will pay off in the long run.
- Make Pro and Con List: This sounds simple but making a pro/con list really helps you think about things strategically. Ways to be even more effective in a pro/con list is to weight the categories of the different items comparing before answering each item. Then when answering each item do not have weighting in front of you. Further, showing your pro/con list to a trusted person is a must to get perspective. You very well may be lying to yourself in your assessment and having a trusted person that can call you out is important.
- Think Long Term: Understanding your objectives and how to get to these and aligning your current situation to those goals is always important. I will consciously do this at least once a year and often times more. This does not mean that I do not enjoy where I am at but it is a way to make sure that I am staying strategic and keeping an eye on long term objectives. Sometimes you may decide to take a new opportunity that is less pay so you can get extra skills or move into a new field. Making such a choice is wise, strategic and long term focused.
In short, doing your homework, not acting in haste, making a pro/con list, and thinking long term will help you make better decisions and avoid the grass is greener trap.
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